Person information and personal profile!
"I am a Beautiful, Intelligent, Erotic, Voluptuous, Witty, Emotionally Mature and Strict, Dominant Woman and I am living here in Phoenix, AZ. I am 40 yrs old, 5'11" tall with long brown hair and hazel eyes. I have smooth fare skin that always shines and smells delicious.
You will get the opportunity to see some pictures of Me on My Gallery page. If you are lucky enough to be considered for servitude, you will see more than just pictures of Ms. Pam, You will not address me as Mistress, Definitely not before you meet with my bare minimum requirements to be allow to address me that way. I suggest you take this as a warning. Don't address a letter to Dear Mistress! I am Ms. Pam to you right now!
I believe in being very clean and feminine within My dominance. That is enough about My looks for now." Lets get familiar with my predominant and feminine demeanor!
"Curious submissive(s) always want to know how long I have been doing this? How I got started and what I enjoy doing? I have been a Dominant Personality My whole life through in one way or another really. I was born with a strong personality that demands clear control within my life's circumstances. I have been agreeing to see submissive(s) for about 7 years, but I've participated in areas of this D/s lifestyle for several before that. There are many things that please Me! This where I choose to participate with BDSM Lifestyle people and/or observe that D/s construct personally. It mostly depends on the individual I am with and what has been negotiated. I am an extremist, proving many times within my enacting D/s & BDSM Scenarios what I like. I take everything to its edge when possible and within mutually agreed upon limits, where I always observe those nonetheless. I believe in touch of all forms through; pleasure and pain. But, I know that does not soothe some of your curiosity. So, a few of My favorites BDSM Methodologies are listed below.
Other personal things that I enjoy are reading, fine dinning, cooking, art, psychology, shopping, traveling, working out, movies, camping, long drives, music and dancing.
So, you think you want to serve ME? You think you can please Me, or satisfy Me! That you can obey My every command? You want to give over your power and do this for Me? You want to put your personal safety, emotional heath and mental state in My hands? You want to hand over control of your body, mind and soul to Me to play with or destroy as I choose? I DOUBT IT! And the odds are you can't do that really! That should get rid of about 90% of the fakes and wannabe's who want to play the wrong kind of games with me. I've had enough of that really!
For the rest of you who still believe: you realistically can serve as a submissive slave, that you know how to treat this mature and dominant woman the way She wants and deserves.....Ha-Ha!! I say prove it, if you think you can really!
Let Me be sweet for a moment and give you a little clue, I mean into the way I look at this...that is why you are reading this isn't it?
Or all I will say otherwise to you; is so what and who cares? Seek them out will you please to play your head trip with them? In what I don't need or want anything to do with!
I am NOT a fulltime Professional Dominatrix, therefore, I am not trying to run a business with slaves running in and out, yanking their little pathetic weenies, waving a dollar and begging a Superior Female to spank them on their ugly and wimpy asses!
Don't get me wrong here: I have the UTMOST respect for the Women who do that, its just not for this particular Femdom. I am a Lifestyle Domme! Which means I can say no to anyone I want too. Any time I want too, I can turn you down for no particular reason other than the fact that it's what I want to do if you're unworthy. I accept who I want, when I want, how I want and for why I want it!
It only takes a few excellent, and truly trust worthy submissive(s) to serve Me. I have no need for a house full of half ass and clueless wimps. I have no real tolerance for people who want to top from the bottom really. I love what I do, it excites Me, it turns Me on, thatís why I do it! But, I do it My way and within my clear terms to be associated in my life only.
Let Me tell you exactly what I'm looking for in a submissive/slave. Just by saying you are submissive, that does not make you one, in my opinion. Nor will that demonstrate much to this Dominant Woman really. As I will always be the judge of what qualities you have as a submissive, in that event and where I find you desirable if at all? It is where I look for mature intelligence first and foremost!!!! I choose extremely intelligent males and females! See, if otherwise they will have no idea what they are truly seeking or talking about. Thus no hope of keeping up with Me in a conversation about the D/s community or BDSM methodologies employed within sexualities I play into.
Other than intelligence I look for wit, charm, attractiveness, lack of inhibitions, honesty, loyalty within your expectations, physically fitness and bravery. In fact I adore individuals that work out, nothing gets Me hotter than fit triceps, thighs and a tight butt. I like confidence, eagerness, willingness, personal capability within an individual's ambitions. I respect, a level of submissiveness, within passion, as a desire to please, obsessively CLEAN, well groomed, obedient and I very like within a given submissive within an unrelenting craving in their gut to adore and serve ME!
Everyone is good at something, make your abilities stand out.
Above all else, I look at personal attitude and within a man or a woman that knows what he or she wants really? It is important to tests their willingness to do just about anything to have it, including beg. I look for someone that will share sincerely their emotions, dreams and fears. Someone open-minded enough to ask the right questions, and that's about breeding the right type of conversation, that takes us to a level we didn't know we could reach together as Mistress/slave. I only accept D/s relationships on a interpersonal level, that most people fail to comprehend really, Much less could ever hope to achieve on interpersonal levels. A submissive should never be demanding or complaining to me that I don't make them happy within their expectations.
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