Anal Enslavement
Why Anal Sex Is Different When Done
To Males
This piece combines &
revises several different source materials from various
places, seeking to
achieve a more compact presentation of the relevant details.
Its author’s name is a
pseudonym…
An Essay by Ms. Pam
It has
always been clear that one partner will always seek to "give it up" ...
the mystery, apparently, is in why this is so.
When the
one who yields is male, the secret is in his inner anatomy, not in his
outer endowment -- many Domme-centric ladies use this knowledge to
maintain optimum pleasure for themselves, while others continue on the
altogether more problematic path of adopting stern demeanors of such
startling contempt for the male that he is rendered not only quiescent
in his responsiveness, but also intimidated to such a degree he is
unable to profoundly dedicate himself to the deep pleasuring of Her! By
the employment of direct and skillful deep rectal stimulation, however,
a Domme not only accesses his true submissive willingness, she
re-orients his most basic instincts radically. He becomes both grateful
and relieved to the point of the most able devotional sexuality
imaginable, eager to be used for her pleasure rather than simply
resigned to his own abject humiliation. The difference is qualitative to
the most extraordinary degree. And once he is thoroughly indoctrinated
by such pleasure principles, the very notion of selfish, self-absorbed
phallo-centric crudity rapidly vanishes. He learns who he really is,
what his true purpose is, and how innately & vastly superior her demands
always are and always will be. He gives it up, wholeheartedly indeed,
without reservation or resistance.
What is male
milking, you ask? Some think it is the repeated forced masturbation of
the male slave to the point of his finally not being able to ejaculate
... some think it is the teasing and stimulation right up to the point
of ejaculation, but with no actual release – taking him to the edge over
and over, driving him batty with the denial of ultimate release. While
such methods do insure a certain modicum of control, the most effective
Technique goes
much deeper into his being.
True milking
actually denies the slave the one thing he truly loves to do the most:
to explode his essence in a wild and utterly incapacitating explosive
release. And this denial is achieved through the skillful violation up
into his most vulnerable orifice. True milking is the controlled
stimulation of the male sub’s prostate gland, causing the non-eruptive
discharge of his semen ... “discharge” and “leakage” instead of spurted
ejaculation, because discharge is not orgasmic like an ejaculation, but
more of a constant maddening oozing and draining of his essence. She
prevents him from his release, holding him at a point where her purposes
are the only ones that matter. He is well stimulated, to be sure, but
the intensity is so well controlled by her that he becomes his Lady’s
total slave. This is denial, but with a critical difference: his
deepest inner sexuality is manipulated to the point that enslavement to
her wishes is his only release, is what binds him enduringly and without
reservation to thorough and endlessly wholehearted pleasuring of his
Lady.
The prostate is a small gland in men, felt approximately
three inches up inside the rectum, surrounding the neck of the bladder
and urethra. Its primary function is to contribute to seminal fluid.
Milking is the deep and continual massaging of the prostate and
surrounding area. Continual massaging of his prostate forces the slow
release of his semen down through his urethra to his penis. This deep
rectal forcing of his fluids is so spellbinding to him that it
eventually and irrevocably makes him her sexual slave.
The massaging can be by fingers, or an object like a
dildo. Fingers are the best for stimulation but a dildo will also work
quite well and aids greatly in the humbling loss of control. Lengthy
practice will assure the acquiring of the best technique for optimum
dildo control and consequent anal enslavement of the male. Regular size
vibrating dildos of about 6-8 inches in length are best. A ribbed dildo
is particularly effective.
As stated earlier, unlike masturbation, which results in
an explosive release (ejaculation), massaging of the prostate to the
point of milking is neither explosive nor as acutely ecstatic for him.
Again, massaging the prostate and milking the slave is a slow process
that results in the draining of his essence as well as the draining away
of his will to resist his Lady. It is hypnotically pleasurable but
nowhere near the acute pleasure of cumming by jerking-off, or by being
jerked off.
During milking, the cum oozes out in slow drips and there
is no explosive ejaculation. To aid in the milking, grasp the base of
the penis and squeeze the juices out while massaging the prostate.
These expressed juices can be simultaneously smeared around his lips and
nose while he is being probed with dildo or strap-on, to aid greatly in
the re-conditioning process.
When being used anally via dildo, to get the best
stimulation to his prostate he must also assist her by working the dildo
against his prostate, arching and bending into its pressures. He will
be more than eager to do this, grinding his hips. With practice he will
become most uninhibited in his gyrations. So his Lady not only fucks
him, but he fucks himself for her. He becomes her dancing erotic puppet
at the end of her control.
Another thing about milking is that the slow drippings of
his cum always leave him only partially satisfied, and constantly
sexually frustrated ... he has a constant feeling of being on the verge
of cumming so he keeps grinding and massaging, or wanting his prostate
to be massaged, in the hopes of actually cumming. Blinded by the spell
of her manipulator and as invasions, he turns and moans and is
helpless. This is really great for her, because right after a typical
slave cums, he loses a lot of his submissiveness, and with a reduced
feeling of submissiveness, the Lady also loses some of her control. Not
so with milking: the slave is never fully sexually satisfied so he
remains sexually frustrated, submissive, obedient and attentive. He
will beg and weep and beseech his Lady to keep fucking him so he can get
closer and closer to his release. Yet it keeps him on the edge of his
ejaculation, without that critical orgasmic release.
His experience is a lot like what his Lady sometimes
feels during clitoral stimulation from hand massaging, or from oral
service, or from fucking, but incompletely so - if such stimulation
continues and is done properly, his Lady can climax in a very strong
manner, similar to when a male ejaculates. Not so with milking, since
he remains on the edge throughout the milking, however long she may wish
to prolong it. This makes him crave more and more stimulation, hoping he
will be allowed a strong and final orgasm. The cruel and delightful
truth is that it never comes, not for him. She can keep him willingly
maddened indefinitely, subject to whatever erotic whims she demands.
What happens is the male becomes more and more eager to
please her and to feel the extremes of her manipulation. Instead of the
orgasmic release of cum, only those drips of cum ooze out... with ease
she gets him to lick his own forced dribbles from her hand, addicting
him to the juice she forces out of him – since he is constantly draining
and constantly kept from a full-blown ejaculation, he comes to crave
this taste of himself and this state of affairs and becomes conditioned
to these subtle but extraordinary sensations, knowing it’s the only way
to please her.
So his Lady, thru teasing, orgasm denial, and milking,
conditions him endlessly, and she gets him to love being fucked up the
ass (and to finding his penis relatively useless, except for peeing and
dripping cum ... it’s entirely up to Her!). She can get him to desire
being bound and restrained, to love being flogged and love drinking his
own essences, and, through her dildo fucking him constantly, love to be
taken anally over and over for long periods of time. She can settle
over his face with her own hips as she continues to grind her dildo
against his inner organ, forcing him to pleasure both her cunt and
asshole with his nose and lips and tongue as long as she wishes, rubbing
herself over his upturned head exhaustingly, thru the repeated multiple
orgasms she will be able to give herself. Not exactly face-sitting,
this is more like face fucking! An ideal posture of worship for
the male and for the female alike. And if the Lady is one who
particularly enjoys having her the rim of her anal sphincter
tongue-fucked, she will be able to indulge herself in this pleasure
indefinitely. He will beg her not to stop fucking him, burying his
tongue repeatedly.
He becomes her lap dog forever, if that’s what she wants
. . . he will deny her nothing. Beatings and humiliations of any and
all variations are hers on demand, his upturned cheeks hers for the
taking, whenever and however and for as long as she needs. Her only
limit will be her own ongoing imagination and physical stamina. She
paces herself by alternating deep rectal churning with other activities,
gradually reshaping the contours of his libidinous nature to her own
lust. She eventually gets his conditioning to the point of making him
bow to her wishes with no actual stimulation of his penis at all, simply
through touching the vibrating head of her dildo to his pucker, or even
just by saying it -- a whispered promise that she’s going to fuck him
will have him on his knees instantly, his happy, eager face upturned.
Or anything else upturned. Lady’s Choice!
Because the male's truest submissive nature is most
clearly revealed while he is in a state of sexual frustration, it’s best
to persist with this particular method of domination at all times.
To keep him in a state of total need and uninhibited
willingness to please her is the goal. And, as explained above, milking
is what accomplishes this, beyond any other technique at her disposal.
What follows is testimony from an experienced male
submissive, telling of the complex joy of his being enslaved by his
Mistress thru orgasm denial, milking, and deep rectal manipulation:
“As far as the milking, I am not only getting used to
this, but I actually crave it more than any other thing. It used to take
longer but now I find that once the massaging starts, my penis starts to
drip and ooze right away. I love the slow oozing, I love the taste, I
love being kept open beneath her.
As mentioned earlier, when milking is done using a dildo,
to get the best stimulation to the prostate I must also help by riding
the dildo deeply back and forth along my prostate. So when Mistress
Ramona fucks me, I will twist and grind my ass and hips like the slut I
am to drive the dildo deeper, right onto my prostate. My ass has become
my cunt and my prostate has become my clit and Mistress Pam's dildos
have become my best friends. I am also finding my penis to be of less
and less use to me. At times it is almost a nuisance. It is hers
completely now, solely for whatever use she makes of it. To tie it or
clamp it or drip wax upon it or to put extreme stress to it in any way
is her right, by all means. I have no say. I want no say.
She also would use teasing whenever She could. She would
have me kneel in front of Her to massage Her feet. While I lovingly
caressed Her feet, Mistress Pam slowly spread Her legs. She would then
have me remove Her panties with my teeth. Mistress would spread Her
legs to expose Her beautiful Pussy. She would then slowly place Her
finger into Her pussy and begin to pleasure Herself. She would say how
She wished She had a nice cock in Her right now. She would look down at
my penis, laugh and tell me to fetch one of her vibrators. I would then
continue to massage Her feet while She pleasured Herself. She praises
me and tells me how good of a slave I am. She rubs my ass and balls and
lets me lick Her feet and hips. If I have been able to cum with a full
load, She has even poured my cum on Her beautiful feet and lets me lick
them clean. Whenever I am milked, Mistress Ramona likes to collect my
cum as it comes out of my penis into a cup or bowl. Mistress Ramona
also likes to rub it on Her strap-on dido and have me suck it clean.
I now find that when my Mistress talks about fucking me
or of Her wearing Her strap-on dildo, I immediately become excited.
I also find that when She fucks me, I want so much to
please Her, to give Her enjoyment and receive Her approval. I now enjoy
all fucking positions. I do find that some are better for stimulation
of my prostate and that some are better when I get closer to cumming.
Oh I love when She fucks me from behind with me on all fours and I can
feel Her soft thighs and belly against my ass. Mistress likes this
position, too, because She can see my cum as it drips from my unused
penis. She wets her hand with my cum and rubs it over my face while she
fucks me.
Mistress likes to ask me how does it feel to have my ass
turned into a pussy for her pleasure - oh how She loves to fuck my male
pussy, getting me all wet and slippery with her lubricants, like a cunt
would be! I also love when She lays me on my belly with my legs spread
and tied to the post of Her bed, exposing my open backdoor for Her use.
I find this position also gives me good prostate stimulation. Finally, I
love when Mistress lays on Her back and She has me lower myself onto her
strap-on and has me fuck myself, sometimes facing her, other times with
my cheeks toward her. In this position, Mistress likes to watch me pump
my hips down and around, thrusting the dildo into myself harder and
harder, trying to reach the orgasm that never quite happens. It is one
of her favorite postures for me.
Whatever way She fucks me, I love it when the head of her
dildo first enters me and She begins to take long stokes in and out,
but She particularly loves to tease the thick head of her dildo right
at the mouth of my anal ring, slipping in just past the first sphincter,
then pulling it right back out, over and over. This goosing makes me
almost lose my mind, but not my load . . . she says she gets a kick out
of watching how my pucker reacts to the in and out motion, like lips . .
. and the moaning I do is a real treat for her as well, and when she
combines this kind of play with twisting my nipples or flogging, she can
make me very verbal!
She knows that Her conditioning is working because,
through milking, my sexual desires and needs are being met, and that in
this way any male aggression I might be feeling is channeled for her own
needs exclusively. I am completely open and willing to her whims and
wishes, eager to serve her every command. We each have the best of all
possible worlds!”
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