My Private Chamber
So you found your way to my personal
area, did you?
~ My Views On Dominance ~
Much of my philosophy of dominance is a direct
reflection of my views from my time as a woman and within my life’s
experiences. If you want to read more of my words on various aspects of
that, please go on reading!
attempting to further my life as a woman and submissive to men, something that
no longer draws me to men, I've chosen to only delve into my dominant traits, to
expand them without any confusion about my real nature. I can no longer see
myself submitting my emotions, mind and body to a dominant male. I'm most
assuredly in full dominant mode, with no desire to experience more than the
occasional bottoming for the endorphin rush through sexual intercourse. Furthermore, that would only be
with those whom I already know and trust to assist me in achieving that
state. Even here it would be from a dominant point of view. I choose when,
I choose how and I choose where and why.
What? You're still reading!? GOOD! The following
are highly personal viewpoints, ones I firmly believe on. Even still, they
are personal opinions.
A submissive is not somehow "less" than a dominant, nor
is a dominant any greater or better than a submissive. It's not possible to
be a practicing dominant if you don't have a submissive and vice versa! Therefore, if I need some sort of relationship with a submissive for my
dominant side to be satisfied, why would I look down on the male who chose
consensually chooses to submit to me? I do espouse the goddess or superior mentality I see in
parts the female dominant genre. Being female doesn't make me superior
exclusively, just different in a way that, when I express it in dominance
over a male, this satisfies a craving in both my male playmates and myself.
There are two things I've read that struck a deep chord
in me. "Why would I want to dominate someone I considered inferior to
the satisfaction in that?" I agree wholeheartedly. So the other thing I now
like to say is I prefer a submissive to be "equal in status, subservient in
Let's see... *grin* I'm 5'11", about 200 pounds,
have auburn hair, hazel eyes, and a killer smile. My Phoenix, AZ area
residence is a small 2 bedroom home. My Bedroom was converted to my Inner
Chamber and completed on Jan 2005. I live with my submissive partner and my 2
very social dogs as my furbabies,
As well as being a lifestyle dominant, I also do this
professionally and part-time for a carefully picked and a few very special
set of clients. I've become
active in the local "scene" or group, Femdom Dreams is my domain and
I am proud to be it's founding member.
I like going to movies, a good action adventure or
martial arts flick will catch my interest at any time. Although I'm a
finicky eater, I like to discover new-to-me restaurants and patronize those
that I like. Comedy clubs are great places to frequent, just something about
laughing for what seems like hours puts me in a wonderful mood. I love
walking around in the flee Markets and would like to go to the IMAX theatre.
Even riding the trolley to the end of the line and back is something I
consider fun. Playing with my dogs or digging into the fantasies of the
submissive mind, cutting up and joking with friends, going to science
fiction/fantasy conventions, these are all things that I enjoy.
My dislikes are for anything more than minimal alcohol
consumption, drug use (this includes smoking "pot"), those who actively
dislike dogs or cats. I detest superior (condescending) attitudes, perfectionists,
supposedly submissive men with a long list of things I should do to them or
allow them to do for me (especially when they write within sexual details
outside what's asked for), and probably a few others that aren't coming to
mind at the moment.
I listen to some classic rock, primarily alternative
and "pop" music. I can just barely tolerate most country but not rap.
Classical and new-age makes good background music but isn't one of my
choices when I turn on the stereo.
I seldom wear cosmetics (preference) or high heeled
shoes, the latter because I have lower back problems. As much as I wish my
wardrobe were more extensive (especially the fetish wear) I prefer to spend
discretionary money on toys over clothing. At least for now. I try to keep
my hair and I like getting a pedicure.
You want even more personal
Shame on you! Alright, alright!
|Well, although I've covered some of this in the Training
area or (see the link Interests) I'll give a different and more personal
If a submissive wants to please me, emotionally, they'll have a degree
of imaginativeness and will be able to respond to questions like "What
would you like to experience, today?" without being wishy- washy.
Initiative also means offering service before it's requested. I don't
always require that my coffee be served from a kneeling position, but if
the submissive wants to do so because HE enjoys it, I will enjoy the
service. I always enjoy my feet being caressed and massaged, not
necessarily as an act of foot worship, but service done out of a desire
to please me. Actually, a massage from a friend is almost always
welcome, be it of feet, neck or back.
***If you remember that there was once more intimate information about
me here, your memory is correct. I took it out because of the type of
email it seemed to encourage.
True submissive's are
always a joy to find. By using the term “submissive's”, I am referring
to those who are willing to subvert their own personal desires for the
greater joy of pleasing a mistress by fulfilling her wishes. I have a
wide variety of interests in the scene, and I enjoy the opportunity to
explore new slaves, expand their limits, and try new toys and techniques
on willing victims. I also appreciate the servitude of my slaves who ask
nothing in return for the privilege of pleasing me and enriching my life
through their efforts.
|Masochists are another
great pleasure in my life. I especially enjoy playing with those who
respond to pain as if it were pleasure. For those special people, no
part of the body is off-limits to my cruel attentions. With whips,
clips, clamps, electro-torture, floggers, single-tails, rope, leather
bondage gear, weights, manacles, and a variety of more arcane
instruments, I enjoy torturing and tormenting slaves until they think
they can bear no more, and then perhaps a bit further. Marks are
desirable, but not necessary.
Fetish slaves are also a
welcome addition to my diet. The fetishes I most enjoy include high
heels, boots, corsetry, fur, feathers, leather, latex, and other
sensation-based fetishes. I have extremely soft, sensitive skin, and I
derive great pleasure from wearing articles of fetish clothing that
provide a variety of sensations. I love the look of very high-heels,
sheer seamed-stockings, and sleek, form-fitting clothing that has been
custom-made to fit like a second skin.
also include bondage among my fetishes, and most fetish clothing is
bondage related. It pleases me to render slaves completely helpless
using simple or complex rope bondage. For those who have no appreciation
for the feeling of being slowly but completely incapacitated by rope, I
also have a variety of leather harnesses and restraints, hoods,
arm-binders, gloves, etc.